Honor and Pride

One of the strongholds of  co-dependency is an unhealthy self-preoccupation. Although we cannot imagine our lives ever bearing the poisonous fruit of pride. We can recognize the small seeds buried deeply in the soil of our human hearts. If these seeds are watered by...

Forgiveness

What is forgiveness? Dr Charles Stanley, in his book “Forgiveness”, offers this definition: Forgiveness is “the act of setting someone free from an obligation to you that is a result of a wrong done against you.” For example: a debt is forgiven...

Beatitudes

Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount–Jesus turns human social order on its head by stating that it is humility, gentleness, and purity that God truly values, rather than power or wealth. Jesus’ message in the so-called Sermon on the Mount challenges us to...

What exactly is beauty?

The Dove Campaign asked women and found that: * Seventy-seven percent strongly agree that beauty can be achieved through attitude, spirit, and other attributes that have nothing to do with physical appearance. * Eighty-nine percent strongly agree that a woman can be...

Unrealistic Expectations

One of my major life stronghold has been Co-Dependency.  This teaching by my good friend Bonnie Lisech of Deeper Roots Publications who has helped me realize that unrealistic expectations and trying to control have not been very useful to me. As Christians we may...