What Christ Brings to a Marriage

This year marks my 40th wedding anniversary. It is called the Ruby Anniversary. Ruby, because rubies are thought to possess an eternal inner flame which is a symbol that the passion in a marriage is still very alive and strong after 40 years together. This is also the...

Honor and Pride

One of the strongholds of  co-dependency is an unhealthy self-preoccupation. Although we cannot imagine our lives ever bearing the poisonous fruit of pride. We can recognize the small seeds buried deeply in the soil of our human hearts. If these seeds are watered by...

Forgiveness

What is forgiveness? Dr Charles Stanley, in his book “Forgiveness”, offers this definition: Forgiveness is “the act of setting someone free from an obligation to you that is a result of a wrong done against you.” For example: a debt is forgiven...

Loving the Unlovely

Jesus demands not only that we not resist evil people assaulting our honor or possessions (vv. 38-42) but that we go so far as to actively love our enemies. If we expect others to respect our boundaries, we need to respect their boundaries. Matthew 5: 41-47 NIV41 If...